St Mary's is committed to providing a sensitive and personal service for key moments in life, and our ancient parish church provides a beautiful and dignified setting for your wedding.


If you are hoping to be married at St Mary’s, please contact the Parish Office and we’ll arrange for you to meet one of the clergy team and discuss your requirements.


In order to be married at St Mary’s, you will legally require what is called a ‘Qualifying Connection’: usually obtained by residing within the parish boundaries, but also made by family connections with the church and parish, as well as regular worship at St Mary’s.  We will be happy to advise!


In order to find out which parish you live in, click here.


Further information about being married in the Church of England, see this excellent site:

The Parish Church of St. Mary the Virgin, Oxted
Church Lane, Oxted, Surrey, RH8 9NB


01883 714263